Abused-child Quote by Sarah Benamer
““Complexly traumatized children need to be helped to engage their attention in pursuits that do not remind them of trauma-related triggers and that give them a sense of pleasure and mastery. Safety, predictability, and "fun" are essential for the establishment of the capacity to observe what is going on, put it into a larger context, and initiate physiological and motoric self-regulation.””
About This Quote
Children who have experienced trauma need safe, predictable, enjoyable activities to rebuild attention, pleasure, and self‑regulation skills.
In simple terms: Trauma‑affected children need safe, fun activities to heal.
Provide safe, fun experiences.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- classroom settings
- therapy sessions
- after‑school programs
- family activities
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What activities feel safe for the child?
- How can you balance fun with therapeutic goals?
Some children may still be triggered despite precautions.