Appropriateness Quote by Samuel Johnson
![“My dear friend, clear your mind of cant [excessive thought]. You may talk as other people do: you may say to a man, "Sir, I am your most humble servant." You are not his most humble servant. You may say, "These are bad times; it is a melancholy thing to be reserved to such times." You don't mind…” quote by Samuel Johnson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/590/samuel-johnson-50_appropriateness_my-dear-friend-clear-your-mind-of-cant-e_74600.jpg)
““My dear friend, clear your mind of cant [excessive thought]. You may talk as other people do: you may say to a man, "Sir, I am your most humble servant." You are not his most humble servant. You may say, "These are bad times; it is a melancholy thing to be reserved to such times." You don't mind the times ... You may talk in this manner; it is a mode of talking in Society; but don't think foolishly.””
About This Quote
Advises against pretentious self‑deprecation and empty social niceties, urging authentic expression over hollow politeness.
In simple terms: Authenticity over affectation
Key Takeaway
Speak genuinely, not to impress
Themes
authenticity
social conventions
self‑deception
humility
communication
Mood
reflective
serious
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
maxim
When to use this quote
- formal gatherings
- political speeches
- personal apologies
- networking events
Key Concepts
social masks
self‑presentation
honesty
Practical Applications
- writing authentic dialogue
- coaching public speakers
Questions to Reflect On
- How does self‑deprecation affect credibility?
- When is modesty genuine versus performative?
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