Appropriateness Quote by Drew Pinsky
“Here's the acid test for appropriateness: Pretend that someone near and dear to you is witnessing what you are writing or sending, or knows what you are thinking about sending. If, say, your partner saw this behavior, how would he or she feel? That you are asking yourself this question could mean that you shouldn't be doing it!”
About This Quote
Source Advice column or interview excerpt
Encourages using empathy by imagining a trusted person witnessing your actions to gauge appropriateness, promoting self‑reflection before communication
In simple terms: Think before you act by imagining a loved one watching
Key Takeaway
Consider others’ feelings before sending messages
Themes
empathy
communication
ethics
self‑reflection
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advice
ethical
reflective
When to use this quote
- texting
- social media posts
- personal conversations
Key Concepts
moral reasoning
social awareness
personal responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- How would you feel if you were the observer?
- What standards guide your communication?
A Different Perspective
May not account for cultural differences in perception
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