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Hurt Quote by Samuel Johnson

“If I have said something to hurt a man once, I shall not get the better of this by saying many things to please him.” quote by Samuel Johnson
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“If I have said something to hurt a man once, I shall not get the better of this by saying many things to please him.”

Samuel Johnson

About This Quote

Source Essay: “On the Use of Language”, 1775

If you hurt a man once, don’t try to please him with many words later.

In simple terms: Don’t compensate hurt with excessive flattery.

Key Takeaway

Speak sincerely, not manipulatively.

Themes

ethics communication integrity

Mood

reflective ethical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • public discourse

Key Concepts

reparative language honesty

Questions to Reflect On

  • What is the right balance of apology?
  • How can we avoid insincere gestures?
A Different Perspective

Sincere apologies may be more effective.

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