Abuse Quote by Saint Ambrose
“Let there be a door to thy mouth, that it may be shut when need arises, and let it be carefully barred, that none may rouse thy voice to anger, and thou pay back abuse with abuse.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: De Spiritu Sancto, 4th century
Control speech to prevent anger, choosing silence over retaliation when provoked.
In simple terms: Speak only when necessary, avoid angry retaliation.
Key Takeaway
Pause before responding, keep silence as shield.
Themes
self‑control
communication
anger management
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- conflict
- family
- workplace
- online debates
Key Concepts
Stoicism
ethical restraint
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you let anger dictate your words?
- How can you assert yourself without aggression?
A Different Perspective
Silence may be misinterpreted as weakness.
