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“The only time they ever throw anything away is when it's really and truly broken, and then they make a big deal about it. They save up all their bent pins and broken sewing needles and once a year they do a whole memorial service for them, chanting and then sticking them into a block of tofu so…” quote by Ruth Ozeki
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““The only time they ever throw anything away is when it's really and truly broken, and then they make a big deal about it. They save up all their bent pins and broken sewing needles and once a year they do a whole memorial service for them, chanting and then sticking them into a block of tofu so they will have a nice soft place to rest. Jiko says that everything has a spirit, even if it is old and useless, and we must console and honor the things that have served us well.””

Ruth Ozeki

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Tale for the Time Being, Ruth Ozeki, 2013

Objects, even broken ones, are treated with reverence because they once served a purpose and hold memory.

In simple terms: Honor even broken things.

Key Takeaway

Respect the past, cherish usefulness.

Themes

respect memory ritual environment spirituality

Mood

reflective nostalgic

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • household decluttering
  • memorial practices
  • sustainable living
  • craftsmanship
  • grief counseling

Key Concepts

animism material culture attachment

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you decide what to keep or discard?
  • Can honoring objects hinder letting go?
A Different Perspective

May idealize objects, overlooking practical disposal needs.

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