Bits Quote by Ruby Dee
“A trustworthy marriage has weathered temptation and anger and jealousy, resentment, self-righteousness and a little bit of selfishness. When you get over and get through that, then maybe you can see the light to love.”
About This Quote
A marriage endures various flaws and temptations, and overcoming them reveals deeper love.
In simple terms: Love grows after surviving hardships.
Key Takeaway
Work through conflicts to deepen love.
Themes
marriage
forgiveness
growth
imperfection
Mood
hopeful
realistic
Type
relationship
inspirational
When to use this quote
- couples therapy
- conflict resolution
- long‑term partnership
Key Concepts
relationship counseling
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- What flaws are you willing to work through?
- How does overcoming conflict strengthen love?
A Different Perspective
May idealize struggle as necessary.
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