First time Quote by Roxane Gay
““I went back to school, and my classmates admired my new body, offered me compliments, wanted to hang out with me. That was the first time I realized that weight loss, thinness really, was social currency.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Weight of Social Currency” in The New Yorker, 2020
The author observes that societal approval often hinges on physical appearance, turning weight loss into a form of social capital.
In simple terms: Thinness can become a way to gain social approval.
Recognize and challenge appearance‑based judgments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Workplace interactions
- social media
- dating
- friendship circles
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does society reward certain bodies?
- What alternative values can we prioritize?
Physical changes don’t guarantee lasting respect or happiness.