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“I went back to school, and my classmates admired my new body, offered me compliments, wanted to hang out with me. That was the first time I realized that weight loss, thinness really, was social currency.” quote by Roxane Gay
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““I went back to school, and my classmates admired my new body, offered me compliments, wanted to hang out with me. That was the first time I realized that weight loss, thinness really, was social currency.””

Roxane Gay

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Weight of Social Currency” in The New Yorker, 2020

The author observes that societal approval often hinges on physical appearance, turning weight loss into a form of social capital.

In simple terms: Thinness can become a way to gain social approval.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and challenge appearance‑based judgments.

Themes

body image social status self‑esteem culture health

Mood

critical thoughtful analytical

Type

sociological personal growth

When to use this quote

  • Workplace interactions
  • social media
  • dating
  • friendship circles

Key Concepts

Social currency appearance pressure identity formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does society reward certain bodies?
  • What alternative values can we prioritize?
A Different Perspective

Physical changes don’t guarantee lasting respect or happiness.

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