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“I think that giving mindless praise is ridiculous. But I understand why parents do it. They want their kids to feel good about themselves. But parents are never going to teach their children true, positive self esteem by praising everything they do.” quote by Rosalind Wiseman
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“I think that giving mindless praise is ridiculous. But I understand why parents do it. They want their kids to feel good about themselves. But parents are never going to teach their children true, positive self esteem by praising everything they do.”

Rosalind Wiseman

About This Quote

Source Book: Queen Bees and Wannabes by Rosalind Wiseman, 2002

Excessive, unearned praise can undermine genuine self‑esteem, though parents often give it to boost confidence.

In simple terms: Empty praise harms real confidence.

Key Takeaway

Focus on specific, effort‑based feedback.

Themes

parenting self‑esteem feedback

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • child upbringing
  • education
  • coaching
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

psychology developmental

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you praise without inflating ego?
  • What specific behaviors deserve recognition?
A Different Perspective

Praise without substance may foster entitlement.

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