Couples Quote by Robin Sacredfire
““I thought I had lowered my standards pretty much, when I decided that any woman would be good for me as long as she respects me. It didn't took me long to realize that would never happen. I was being naive about the real state of the world. It's not that one shouldn't have low standards, or high, or medium, but that most people are such a disgusting representation of themselves, that they can't stop themselves being like this until they die. And maybe they do appreciate what they had when they lose it, but they quickly forget about it when getting it back. Forgiving people that apologize too often has been another naive behavior of mine.””
About This Quote
Source Blog post: “Low Standards and Naïveté” by Robin Sacredfire, 2020
The author reflects on setting low relationship standards, realizing many people behave poorly, and acknowledges personal naiveté in forgiveness and expectations.
In simple terms: Low standards lead to disappointment; people often act badly; forgiveness can be naive.
Key Takeaway
Set realistic expectations and practice healthy boundaries.
Themes
relationships
self-awareness
expectations
forgiveness
naiveté
Mood
cautious
introspective
Type
advisory
critical
When to use this quote
- dating advice
- personal essay
- self-help
Key Concepts
personal growth
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What standards are truly healthy for you?
- How can you balance compassion with self-protection?
A Different Perspective
People may not change despite apologies; forgiveness can enable toxicity.
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