Love Quote by Robin Hobb
““Too many folk, women and men, love the person they wish to be, as if by loving that person, or being loved by that person, they could attain the importance they long for.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Farseer Trilogy, 1995
People idealize others, hoping love will grant them the importance they crave.
In simple terms: Love is mistaken for personal importance.
Key Takeaway
Seek self‑worth beyond external validation.
Themes
self‑esteem
relationships
identity
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy
- relationship counseling
- personal development
Key Concepts
idealization
self‑worth
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we equate love with status?
- How can we build internal confidence?
A Different Perspective
Idealization can lead to disappointment.
