Please Quote by Robert M. Gates
“I don't think any president that I worked with has ever said 'pretty please.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Private remarks, 2000s (unknown source)
He feels no president he worked with ever used the phrase “pretty please,” implying formality over pleading.
In simple terms: Presidents rarely say “pretty please.”
Key Takeaway
Recognize the formality in high‑level communication.
Themes
politics
communication
formality
Mood
neutral
thoughtful
Type
observational
political
When to use this quote
- diplomatic meetings
- policy negotiations
- public speaking
Key Concepts
political etiquette
language norms
Questions to Reflect On
- Why might leaders avoid pleading language?
- How does formality affect perception?
A Different Perspective
Some leaders may use softer language in private.
