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Civil war Quote by Robert E. Lee

“I am now considered such a monster, that I hesitate to darken with my shadow, the doors of those I love, lest I should bring upon them misfortune.” quote by Robert E. Lee
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“I am now considered such a monster, that I hesitate to darken with my shadow, the doors of those I love, lest I should bring upon them misfortune.”

Robert E. Lee

About This Quote

Source Letter: Personal correspondence of Robert E. Lee, 1864

He feels like a monster, fearing his presence may bring misfortune to loved ones, showing deep guilt and self‑doubt.

In simple terms: He worries his shadow brings bad luck to those he loves.

Key Takeaway

Address guilt through honest communication.

Themes

guilt self‑doubt family war trauma

Mood

guilty reflective somber

Type

historical personal

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • counseling sessions
  • personal letters
  • support groups

Key Concepts

psychology morality legacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your self‑image affect your relationships?
  • What steps can you take to reconcile with loved ones?
A Different Perspective

Self‑perception may be distorted by external events; seek perspective.

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