Ashamed Quote by Rick Hillier
“I'll tell you one thing, when you have young men and women in combat operations and they lose their friends, one thing you quickly learn not to be ashamed of is tears.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Canadian Armed Forces leadership, 2015
In combat, loss teaches soldiers that showing emotion, like crying, is normal and not shameful.
In simple terms: Crying after loss is acceptable for soldiers.
Key Takeaway
Allow vulnerability to heal after trauma.
Themes
military
emotions
grief
Mood
somber
empathetic
Type
reflective
motivational
When to use this quote
- combat zones
- veteran support groups
- rehabilitation programs
Key Concepts
masculinity
mental health
camaraderie
Questions to Reflect On
- How can units foster emotional support?
- What role does vulnerability play in resilience?
A Different Perspective
Stigma may still discourage open expression.
