Back Quote by Randy Pausch
“I've decided to tell my kids things like: 'I love the way each of you tilted back your heads when you laughed.' I will give them specific stuff they can grasp.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Commencement Address, Carnegie Mellon University, 2007
He wants to give children concrete, heartfelt compliments that they can understand and remember.
In simple terms: Give kids specific praise they can feel.
Speak with detail and love.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- school events
- daily conversations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you notice small joys in others?
- What details make praise memorable?
Specific praise may feel forced if not sincere.