There are three kinds of love; unselfish, mutual, and…
“There are three kinds of love; unselfish, mutual, and selfish. The unselfish love is of the highest kind; The lover only minds the welfare of the beloved and does not care for his own sufferings. In mutual love the lover not only wants the happiness of his beloved; but has an eye towards his own happiness also. It is middling. The selfish love is the lowest. It only looks towards its own happiness, no matter whether the beloved suffers weal or woe.”
About This Quote
Source Spiritual teaching: Teachings of Ramakrishna, 19th century
Love varies by motive: selfless, reciprocal, or self‑centered, with selfless being highest.
In simple terms: Love can be selfless, mutual, or selfish.
Key Takeaway
Strive for selfless love.
Themes
love
ethics
spirituality
relationships
Mood
contemplative
inspirational
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- family
- friendship
- romantic partnership
- community service
Key Concepts
altruism
mutual benefit
self‑interest
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you love others without neglecting yourself?
- How to recognize selfish motives in love?
A Different Perspective
Selfless love may neglect self‑care.