Aversion Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson
““I appeal from your customs. I must be myself. I cannot break myself any longer for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall be happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that you should. I must be myself. I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moon whatever inly rejoices me and the heart appoints. If you are noble, I will love you; if you are not, I will not hurt you and myself by hypocritical attentions””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Self-Reliance, 1841
The speaker urges authentic self‑expression, rejecting conformity and demanding love based on true self rather than pretended roles.
In simple terms: Be true to yourself and seek love that accepts you.
Key Takeaway
Live authentically.
Themes
individualism
authenticity
love
self‑acceptance
Mood
defiant
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- creative work
- social activism
Key Concepts
existentialism
personal integrity
honesty
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of yourself do you hide?
- How can you love others without losing yourself?
A Different Perspective
May be perceived as selfish or alienating to those valuing harmony.
