Appeals Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson
“I appeal from your customs. I must be myself. I cannot break myself anylonger for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall bethe happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that youshould. I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust thatwhat is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moonwhatever inly rejoices me, and the heart appoints. If you are noble, Iwill love you; if you are not, I will not hurt you and myself byhypocritical attentions. If you are true, but not in the same truthwith me, cleave to your companions; I will seek my own.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Self-Reliance, 1841
The speaker demands authenticity, refusing to compromise personal truth for others' expectations, seeking love that accepts the genuine self.
In simple terms: Be true to yourself and seek acceptance for who you are.
Key Takeaway
Live authentically.
Themes
individuality
authenticity
self‑acceptance
relationships
Mood
reflective
determined
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- creative work
- social expectations
- self‑discovery
Key Concepts
existentialism
personal integrity
love
Questions to Reflect On
- What parts of yourself do you hide?
- How can you balance authenticity with social harmony?
A Different Perspective
Authenticity can lead to isolation if others reject it.
