Arise Quote by Rajneesh
“Marriage is a way to avoid intimacy. It is a trick to create a formal relationship. Intimacy is informal. If a marriage arises out of intimacy it is beautiful but if you are hoping that intimacy will arise out of marriage, you are hoping in vain. Of course, I know that many people, millions of people, have settled for marriage rather than for intimacy - because intimacy is growth and it is painful.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Secrets by Rajneesh, 1978
Marriage often substitutes formal commitment for the deeper, vulnerable connection of intimacy, which cannot be forced by ceremony alone.
In simple terms: Marriage can replace intimacy but not create it.
Key Takeaway
Seek genuine connection, not just legal ties.
Themes
relationships
intimacy
commitment
growth
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
relationship.
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal relationships
- dating
- self‑reflection
- relationship building
Key Concepts
psychology
human needs
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- What does intimacy mean to you beyond physical closeness?
- How can you nurture genuine connection within a marriage?
A Different Perspective
Intimacy may develop over time, but expecting it solely from marriage can lead to disappointment.
