Arms Quote by Quentin Crisp
“To minimize my guilt at going to the pictures - to call this wanton pursuit of an effete pleasure by another name - I needed movie companions as drunkards need drinking partners. If I entered a cinema alone, God might plunge his arm through the roof of the auditorium booming in a stereophonic voice, 'And you, Crisp, what are you doing here?' I would never have dared reply, 'I'm just enjoying myself, Lord.'”
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Naked Civil Servant", 1968
Seeking companionship for personal pleasures mirrors human need for shared experiences; solitude feels exposed and judgmental.
In simple terms: We need companions to enjoy activities without feeling judged.
Key Takeaway
Find like‑minded companions for shared enjoyment.
Themes
companionship
loneliness
social anxiety
personal freedom
humor
Mood
wry
reflective
lighthearted
Type
essay
humorous
philosophical
When to use this quote
- going to movies
- attending events
- hobby groups
- travel
- dining out
Key Concepts
existential humor
social companionship
self‑acceptance
Questions to Reflect On
- What activities do you enjoy alone?
- How can you seek companions without feeling dependent?
A Different Perspective
May romanticize companionship, ignoring personal contentment alone.
