Being selfish Quote by Philip Larkin
“The difficult part of love Is being selfish enough.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: The Whitsun Weddings, 1964
Love requires self‑interest to protect one's own needs while caring for another.
In simple terms: Love needs self‑care.
Key Takeaway
Balance self‑interest with compassion.
Themes
love
self‑care
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- long‑term partnership
- friendship
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
egoism
empathy
boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you honor your needs without neglecting others?
- When is self‑care selfish?
A Different Perspective
Self‑interest can become selfishness, harming trust.
