Able Quote by Peter McWilliams
“The part of us that feels anger and depression is the same part that feels peace and love. If you refuse to feel the anger and the pain of a loss, you will not be able to feel anything else until that area heals. In other words, stay out of your own way. Let yourself feel bad if you want to feel bad. Feel joy, too. Healing is taking place. Give yourself the gift of healing.”
About This Quote
Source Book: "The Gift of Healing", 1995
Anger, depression, peace, and love share the same emotional center; feeling pain is necessary to heal and feel joy.
In simple terms: Feel all emotions to heal.
Allow full emotional range.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- grief work
- self‑care
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What emotions are you avoiding?
- How can you sit with discomfort?
Avoiding pain can block joy.