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“...and we do decide for ourselves when it will hurt.” quote by Per Petterson
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““...and we do decide for ourselves when it will hurt.””

Per Petterson

About This Quote

We have agency to decide when we allow pain into our lives.

In simple terms: We choose when to feel hurt.

Key Takeaway

Accept responsibility for your emotional boundaries.

Themes

agency pain choice self‑care

Mood

reflective empowering

Type

motivational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • therapy
  • relationship decisions

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • When do you let fear dictate your choices?
  • What would happen if you embraced discomfort?
A Different Perspective

Choosing pain can be limiting if avoidance becomes fear.

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