Difficult Quote by Pema Chodron
“Without loving-kindness for ourselves, it is difficult, if not impossible, to genuinely feel it for others.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Places That Scare You by Pema Chodron, 2014
Compassion for others stems from self‑compassion; without kindness to ourselves we cannot truly extend it outward.
In simple terms: Self‑kindness is needed to feel kindness for others.
Cultivate self‑compassion first.
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal growth workshops
- conflict resolution
- teaching
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice kindness toward yourself daily?
- What barriers stop you from feeling empathy?
Self‑criticism can block the practice despite effort.