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“Without loving-kindness for ourselves, it is difficult, if not impossible, to genuinely feel it for others.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“Without loving-kindness for ourselves, it is difficult, if not impossible, to genuinely feel it for others.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Source Book: The Places That Scare You by Pema Chodron, 2014

Compassion for others stems from self‑compassion; without kindness to ourselves we cannot truly extend it outward.

In simple terms: Self‑kindness is needed to feel kindness for others.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑compassion first.

Themes

compassion self‑kindness empathy

Mood

reflective calm

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal growth workshops
  • conflict resolution
  • teaching
  • support groups

Key Concepts

Buddhist psychology mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you practice kindness toward yourself daily?
  • What barriers stop you from feeling empathy?
A Different Perspective

Self‑criticism can block the practice despite effort.

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