Agendas Quote by Pema Chodron
“Instead of making others right or wrong, or bottling up right and wrong in ourselves, there's a middle way, a very powerful middle way… Could we have no agenda when we walk into a room with another person, not know what to say, not make that person wrong or right? Could we see, hear, feel other people as they really are? It is powerful to practice this way… true communication can happen only in that open space.”
About This Quote
True communication arises from a neutral, open stance, free of judgment and agenda.
In simple terms: Open, non‑judgmental listening enables true dialogue.
Practice open presence.
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- conflict resolution
- everyday conversations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you stay neutral?
- What practices help you listen openly?
Maintaining neutrality can be difficult under strong emotions.