Approval Quote by Paul Theroux
“When I started writing, I did have some idealised notion of my dad as a writer. But I have less and less of a literary rivalry with him as I've gone on. I certainly don't feel I need his approval, although maybe that's because I'm confident that I've got it.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New Yorker, 2015
The author reflects on evolving personal expectations and confidence, moving beyond seeking parental approval toward self-assurance.
In simple terms: Self-worth grows independent of others' validation.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate confidence from within, not external praise.
Themes
identity
family dynamics
confidence
Mood
reflective
introspective
thoughtful
Type
personal growth
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- Career development
- personal writing
- family relationships
- artistic growth
Key Concepts
Self-actualization
generational influence
creative independence
Questions to Reflect On
- What does approval mean to you?
- How do you balance respect for mentors with personal vision?
A Different Perspective
Overreliance on self-assurance can lead to isolation.
