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Happiness Quote by Paul Laurence Dunbar

“This, this indeed is to be accursed, For if we mortals love, or if we sing, We count our joys not by what we have, But by what kept us from that perfect thing.” quote by Paul Laurence Dunbar
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“This, this indeed is to be accursed, For if we mortals love, or if we sing, We count our joys not by what we have, But by what kept us from that perfect thing.”

Paul Laurence Dunbar

About This Quote

Source Poem: "The Song of the Old Mother" (1900)

Human joy is measured not by possessions but by what we avoid losing, highlighting longing for an ideal.

In simple terms: Joy comes from what we don't lose, not what we have.

Key Takeaway

Value intangible aspirations.

Themes

longing loss idealism

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • artistic creation
  • personal fulfillment

Key Concepts

nostalgia comparative happiness valuation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What "perfect thing" do you pursue?
  • How do you balance desire and contentment?
A Different Perspective

Ideal may be unattainable, causing frustration.

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