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“You can go in and out of love and still love somebody, you know? You may not like them so much on the day, but I can tell you that I don't think I've ever been so vulnerable or been so angry in my life - like, those two emotions feel so hurt or so enraged - as when you're dealing with your kids.” quote by Pamela Adlon
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“You can go in and out of love and still love somebody, you know? You may not like them so much on the day, but I can tell you that I don't think I've ever been so vulnerable or been so angry in my life - like, those two emotions feel so hurt or so enraged - as when you're dealing with your kids.”

Pamela Adlon

About This Quote

Source TV: Better Things, Season 2, Episode 4, 2017

Balancing love and frustration with children reveals deep vulnerability and intense emotions that differ from romantic relationships.

In simple terms: Loving kids can be both tender and angry.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address mixed feelings with your children.

Themes

parenting emotion vulnerability love anger

Mood

reflective empathetic challenging

Type

advice personal family

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child conflict
  • daily caregiving
  • stress management
  • communication
  • self‑compassion

Key Concepts

attachment theory emotional regulation family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you separate love from frustration?
  • What strategies help you stay calm with your children?
A Different Perspective

Emotions toward kids can be overwhelming, making it hard to stay patient.

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