““to discover what love’s truth is, we have to recognize what it is not. • Love does not nurse others through their own emotions, making it all better. • Love does not refuse or run away from feeling al your own emotions. • Love does not rescue anyone from feeling his or her own emotions. • Love does not give itself away to feed another’s needs. • Love is not running to be with others who will agree with you and your wounds. • Love does not refuse to speak truth, no matter what your fears are around this. • Love does not demand or expect anything from anyone. • Love does not give to get. • Love is not painful. • Love does not retaliate. • Love does not bargain. • Love does not compromise. • Love does not need to be loved. • Love does not need to be needed, but can be desired from God. • Love does not take anything or anyone for granted. • Love does not sacrifice Itself for anyone or anything. • Love is not martyring yourself. • Love is not giving yourself away, placating your own ego or another. • Love is not a duty or obligation for any reason. • Love does not lie for any reason. • Love does not hide itself for any reason. • Love may not look like love to the world or other people who are invested in you. • Love does not give out of fear, duty, coercion, pressure or because it is meant to. • Love does not depend on anything or anyone for Its existence. • Love does not run away from Truth but runs towards it, no matter what the cost. • Love does not delay or postpone its growth and expansion within you. • Love does not ignore or justify its Law of Attraction and mirrors. • Love does not deny, avoid or escape anything. • Love does not use anyone or anything because love does not need anyone or anything. • Love does not fill its absence with temporary substitutes and addictions. • Love does not run away from the pain of its felt absence within you. • Love has no shame and feels no loss. • Love does not need to be understood or explain its feelings. • Love does not gossip.””
