Giving yourself Quote by André Gorz
““With you I understood that pleasure is not something you give or take. It's a way of giving yourself and calling forth the gift of self from another person.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Right to the City by André Gorz, 1989
Pleasure arises from mutual self‑expression, not from transaction; it is a shared gift that emerges when we give ourselves fully to another.
In simple terms: Pleasure is a shared self‑gift, not a transaction.
Cultivate openness and mutual self‑giving.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- intimate relationships
- friendship
- collaborative work
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice self‑giving without losing self?
- What boundaries protect healthy mutual pleasure?
May be idealistic; requires deep trust and vulnerability.