Easier Quote by Olin Miller
“It's far easier to forgive an enemy after you've got even with him.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Conflict, 2015
Forgiving an opponent feels easier once you have settled the score, because the desire for retaliation fades.
In simple terms: Revenge ends, then forgiveness comes easier.
Seek resolution before forgiveness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Ending a legal dispute
- settling a personal argument
- concluding a sports rivalry
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you forgive without revenge?
- What does closure mean to you?
If revenge never occurs, forgiveness may stay difficult.