Love Quote by Nyogen Senzaki and Paul Reps
““5. If You Love, Love Openly Twenty monks and one nun, who was named Eshun, were practicing meditation with a certain Zen master. Eshun was very pretty even though her head was shaved and her dress plain. Several monks secretly fell in love with her. One of them wrote her a love letter, insisting upon a private meeting. Eshun did not reply. The following day the master gave a lecture to the group, and when it was over, Eshun arose. Addressing the one who had written her, she said: "If you really love me so much, come and embrace me now.””
About This Quote
Source Story: Zen anecdote, early 20th century collection of Zen sayings
A Zen master challenges a lover to prove love through action rather than words, emphasizing direct, embodied expression of affection.
In simple terms: Love should be shown, not just spoken.
Key Takeaway
Act on love openly.
Themes
love
action
authenticity
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
philosophical
spiritual
When to use this quote
- romantic confession
- spiritual teaching
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
Zen teaching
embodied practice
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you demonstrate love through deeds?
- What does embracing symbolize?
A Different Perspective
Love expressed only in words may lack depth.
