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Belief Quote by Norma Marthalia

“You coming to hurt me, others coming to love me but how come I pick the one that hurt me” quote by Norma Marthalia
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“You coming to hurt me, others coming to love me but how come I pick the one that hurt me”

Norma Marthalia

About This Quote

Source Poem: Unrequited Hearts, 2018

She repeatedly chooses partners who hurt her, despite also receiving love.

In simple terms: Repeats harmful relationship patterns.

Key Takeaway

Break cycles of self‑sabotage.

Themes

relationships selfsabotage pattern healing

Mood

sad reflective

Type

personal therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • therapy
  • selfgrowth

Key Concepts

psychology attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do you gravitate toward hurtful partners?
  • What steps can you take to choose healthier relationships?
A Different Perspective

Changing patterns requires confronting deep fears.

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