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Equality Quote by Natalia Sanmartin Fenollera

“I have to tell you that equality has nothing to do with marriage. The basis of a good marriage, a reasonably happy marriage-don't delude yourself, there is no such thing as an entirely happy marriage-is, precisely, inequality. It's essential if two people are to feel mutual admiration. ………… if you…” quote by Natalia Sanmartin Fenollera
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““I have to tell you that equality has nothing to do with marriage. The basis of a good marriage, a reasonably happy marriage-don't delude yourself, there is no such thing as an entirely happy marriage-is, precisely, inequality. It's essential if two people are to feel mutual admiration. ………… if you reflected a little more deeply you'd realize that you can only admire that which you do not possess. You do not admire in another a quality you have yourself, you admire what you don't have and which you see shining in another in all its splendor.””

Natalia Sanmartin Fenollera

About This Quote

Source Essay: Equality and marriage, 2019

Marriage thrives on complementary differences, not perfect equality.

In simple terms: Good marriage needs inequality, not total equality.

Key Takeaway

Embrace differences in relationships.

Themes

relationships equality admiration

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical relationship

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • partner selection
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

Complementarity psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What qualities do you admire that you lack?
  • How can differences strengthen a partnership?
A Different Perspective

Too much focus on equality can ignore realistic expectations.

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