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Love Quote by Naomi Alderman

“It is a terrible, wretched thing to love someone whom you know cannot love you. There are things that are more dreadful. There are many human pains more grievous. And yet it remains both terrible and wretched. Like so many things, it is insoluble.” quote by Naomi Alderman
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““It is a terrible, wretched thing to love someone whom you know cannot love you. There are things that are more dreadful. There are many human pains more grievous. And yet it remains both terrible and wretched. Like so many things, it is insoluble.””

Naomi Alderman

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Power, Naomi Alderman, 2016

Loving someone who cannot love you back is profoundly painful, yet there are deeper human sufferings beyond romantic loss.

In simple terms: Unrequited love hurts, but worse pains exist.

Key Takeaway

Accept love’s limits, seek healthier connections.

Themes

love pain human suffering acceptance

Mood

sad reflective melancholic

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • breakups
  • grief counseling
  • self‑growth
  • support groups

Key Concepts

unrequited love emotional resilience existential dread

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate love from longing?
  • What deeper pains can we learn from?
A Different Perspective

Unrequited love can become an unhealthy fixation.

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