Love Quote by Naomi Alderman
““It is a terrible, wretched thing to love someone whom you know cannot love you. There are things that are more dreadful. There are many human pains more grievous. And yet it remains both terrible and wretched. Like so many things, it is insoluble.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Power, Naomi Alderman, 2016
Loving someone who cannot love you back is profoundly painful, yet there are deeper human sufferings beyond romantic loss.
In simple terms: Unrequited love hurts, but worse pains exist.
Accept love’s limits, seek healthier connections.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- breakups
- grief counseling
- self‑growth
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate love from longing?
- What deeper pains can we learn from?
Unrequited love can become an unhealthy fixation.