Boys Quote by Myriam Miedzian
“In schools all over the world, little boys learn that their country is the greatest in the world, and the highest honor that could befall them would be to defend it heroically someday. The fact that empathy has traditionally been conditioned out of boys facilitates their obedience to leaders who order them to kill strangers.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Psychology of Men and Masculinity, Myriam Miedzian, 1999
Societal narratives teach boys to idolize national superiority and heroic sacrifice, suppressing empathy and making them more compliant with violent commands.
In simple terms: Boys are taught to love country over empathy, leading to obedience in war.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and challenge harmful patriotism early.
Themes
masculinity
nationalism
empathy
obedience
Mood
reflective
critical
concerned
Type
sociological
psychological
educational
When to use this quote
- school curricula
- parental guidance
- media consumption
- military training
Key Concepts
Social conditioning
identity formation
military recruitment
Questions to Reflect On
- How does early education shape views on violence?
- What alternatives to heroic nationalism can be taught?
A Different Perspective
Empathy can be cultivated despite early conditioning.
