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Giving Quote by Mortimer Adler

“Love consists in giving without getting in return; in giving what is not owed, what is not due the other. That's why true love is never based, as associations for utility or pleasure are, on a fair exchange.” quote by Mortimer Adler
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“Love consists in giving without getting in return; in giving what is not owed, what is not due the other. That's why true love is never based, as associations for utility or pleasure are, on a fair exchange.”

Mortimer Adler

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Nature of Love, 1975

True love is selfless, giving without expectation of return or repayment, unlike relationships based on utility or pleasure.

In simple terms: Love is selfless, not transactional.

Key Takeaway

Practice giving without expecting anything back.

Themes

philosophy ethics relationships selflessness human nature

Mood

introspective inspirational

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • romantic partnerships
  • volunteer work
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

Altruism reciprocity moral philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are you able to give without feeling depleted?
  • How do you balance self-care with selfless giving?
A Different Perspective

Selfless love can be emotionally taxing and may be exploited.

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