Also Quote by Miranda Hart
“It's a vicious circle. If you feel hideous, you convey it to people. A couple of male friends from university have said, 'I quite fancied you, but I wouldn't have dared...' and I was like, 'Oh really?' I was completely amazed that anyone had ever fancied me, and also that I'd obviously given an impression of 'Don't touch me.'”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Guardian, 2015
Self‑esteem can become a self‑fulfilling cycle where feeling unattractive leads to distant behavior, reinforcing others’ perceptions.
In simple terms: Feeling bad makes you act distant, which makes others think you’re unapproachable.
Key Takeaway
Break the cycle by showing confidence and openness.
Themes
self‑esteem
social perception
confidence
communication
Mood
anxious
hopeful
reflective
Type
advice
motivational
observational
When to use this quote
- dating
- workplace interactions
- friendship building
- public speaking
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
self‑fulfilling prophecy
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your self‑image affect how you treat others?
- What small step can you take to appear more approachable?
A Different Perspective
If you change your internal view, external reactions may still lag, requiring patience.
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