Embracing Quote by Michael Ondaatje
““And he loved my mother. I saw him on the last days of his life lift that oil-scented right hand and enter its fingers into her ordered hair and rustle it free of its pins as if he had been offered velvet or the fur of a rare animal. Forever I hold that gesture. For me it was perhaps the last remembered pleasure belonging to him. It is the unspoiled core of whatever I know of love and family (and I have not been successful at the craft of it). Our shyness at embracing each other - it rarely happened - did not matter. I felt safe and comforted in his house.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The English Patient, Michael Ondaatje, 1992
A cherished, simple gesture can embody deep love and familial comfort, persisting beyond loss.
In simple terms: Small acts can hold profound emotional meaning.
Value and remember intimate moments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grieving
- homecoming
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What gestures in your life symbolize lasting love?
- How do we balance nostalgia with present reality?
Such memories may idealize the past, overlooking broader complexities.