Drawn Quote by Vladimir Nabokov
““In spite of everything I loved you, and will go on loving you―on my knees, with my shoulders drawn back, showing my heels to the headsman and straining my goose neck―even then. And afterwards―perhaps most of all afterwards―I shall love you, and one day we shall have a real, all-embracing explanation, and then perhaps we shall somehow fit together, you and I, and turn ourselves in such a way that we form one pattern, and solve the puzzle: draw a line from point A to point B... without looking, or, without lifting the pencil... or in some other way... we shall connect the points, draw the line, and you and I shall form that unique design for which I yearn. If they do this kind of thing to me every morning, they will get me trained and I shall become quite wooden.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Ada, or Ardor: A Family Chronicle by Vladimir Nabokov, 1969
The speaker expresses an obsessive, paradoxical love that persists despite suffering, seeking a perfect union that transcends pain and manipulation.
In simple terms: Love persists despite suffering, yearning for perfect unity.
Embrace love while acknowledging its complexities.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- creative work
- personal trauma
- self‑discipline
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can love survive when it is tied to pain?
- How do we find unity without losing self?
Love may become self‑destructive if not balanced with self‑care.