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Children Quote by M.F.K. Fisher

“(We loved Mother too, completely, but we were finding out, as Father was too, that it is good for parents and for children to be alone now and then with one another...the man alone or the woman, to sound new notes in the mysterious music of parenthood and childhood.) That night I not only saw my…” quote by M.F.K. Fisher
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““(We loved Mother too, completely, but we were finding out, as Father was too, that it is good for parents and for children to be alone now and then with one another...the man alone or the woman, to sound new notes in the mysterious music of parenthood and childhood.) That night I not only saw my Father for the first time as a person. I saw the golden hills and the live oaks as clearly as I have ever seen them since; and I saw the dimples in my little sister's fat hands in a way that still moves me because of that first time; and I saw food as something beautiful to be shared with people instead of as a thrice-daily necessity.””

M.F.K. Fisher

About This Quote

Source Book: The Gastronomical Me by M.F.K. Fisher, 1943

Realizing that parental relationships need occasional solitude to nurture individuality and shared experiences enriches family bonds.

In simple terms: Parents need alone time to grow and share beauty.

Key Takeaway

Cherish moments of quiet connection.

Themes

family parenthood individuality shared beauty

Mood

nostalgic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child outings
  • family meals
  • solo reflection
  • shared hobbies

Key Concepts

psychology relationship dynamics mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can families balance togetherness and personal space?
  • What simple rituals foster shared appreciation?
A Different Perspective

Too much solitude can create emotional distance.

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