Adults Quote by Melanie Klein
“Although psychology and pedagogy have always maintained the belief that a child is a happy being without any conflicts, and have assumed that the sufferings of adults are the results of the burdens and hardships of reality, it must be asserted that just the opposite is true. What we learn about the child and the adult through psychoanalysis shows that all the sufferings of later life are for the most part repetitions of these earlier ones, and that every child in the first years of life goes through and immeasurable degree of suffering.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Narrative of a Child, 1932
Children experience deep suffering early, which later repeats in adult life; contrary to idealized views.
In simple terms: Children suffer early; these pains echo later.
Recognize and address childhood trauma early.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling children
- parental support programs
- psychotherapy for adults
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What early signs indicate lasting trauma?
- How can early intervention change adult outcomes?
Not all childhood experiences are joyful; trauma can be pervasive.