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Asks Quote by Maya Angelou

“It is better to control oneself, if one can, and not hit back. But on certain occasions, it is imperative to defend oneself. I don't think it's fair to ask anybody not to defend herself or himself.” quote by Maya Angelou
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“It is better to control oneself, if one can, and not hit back. But on certain occasions, it is imperative to defend oneself. I don't think it's fair to ask anybody not to defend herself or himself.”

Maya Angelou

About This Quote

Source Speech: Interview on Self-Defense, 1990s

Self‑control is ideal, but when threatened, protecting oneself becomes necessary and justifiable.

In simple terms: Control is best, but self‑defense is sometimes required.

Key Takeaway

Balance restraint with rightful self‑defense.

Themes

self‑control justice personal safety

Mood

determined reflective

Type

ethical practical

When to use this quote

  • personal conflict
  • physical assault
  • harassment
  • legal self‑defense scenarios

Key Concepts

ethics self‑preservation rights

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it appropriate to defend yourself?
  • How can you ensure restraint before reacting?
A Different Perspective

Self‑defense can be misused to justify aggression.

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