Asks Quote by Maya Angelou
“It is better to control oneself, if one can, and not hit back. But on certain occasions, it is imperative to defend oneself. I don't think it's fair to ask anybody not to defend herself or himself.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Interview on Self-Defense, 1990s
Self‑control is ideal, but when threatened, protecting oneself becomes necessary and justifiable.
In simple terms: Control is best, but self‑defense is sometimes required.
Balance restraint with rightful self‑defense.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conflict
- physical assault
- harassment
- legal self‑defense scenarios
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to defend yourself?
- How can you ensure restraint before reacting?
Self‑defense can be misused to justify aggression.