Abandoned Quote by Mary Pipher
“Adolescence is a time when children are supposed to move away from parents who are holding firm and protective behind them. When the parents disconnect, the children have no base to move away from or return to. They aren't ready to face the world alone. With divorce, adolescents feel abandoned, and they are outraged at that abandonment. They are angry at both parents for letting them down. Often they feel that their parents broke the rules and so now they can too.”
About This Quote
Divorce can leave adolescents feeling abandoned, angry, and without a secure base, prompting rebellion and rule‑breaking.
In simple terms: Kids feel abandoned and angry after parents split.
Key Takeaway
Provide stable support and clear boundaries.
Themes
family
adolescence
divorce
Mood
empathetic
concerned
Type
psychological
advisory
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- school support programs
- family mediation
- peer support groups
Key Concepts
attachment theory
emotional trauma
identity formation
Questions to Reflect On
- What support would help a teen feel secure after divorce?
- How can parents maintain a sense of stability?
A Different Perspective
Not all teens react the same; some may adapt quickly.
