Quote Quote by Mary Chase
““In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." ' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me.””
About This Quote
Source Play: Harvey, 1944
A character advises that being intelligent or pleasant are the two valued traits, suggesting a choice between intellect and likability.
In simple terms: Choose between being smart or pleasant.
Key Takeaway
Balance intellect and kindness.
Themes
social dynamics
choice
personality
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- career networking
- friendship building
- dating
- team collaboration
Key Concepts
self‑presentation
social expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- Which trait serves you better in a given situation?
- Can you embody both?
A Different Perspective
Being only smart may limit social connections; being only pleasant may limit influence.
