““It must make you feel nice and young to say that being a man means nothing and being a woman means nothing and what matters is being a... person . How about being a spider , Gwyn. Let's imagine you're a spider . You're a spider, and you've just had your first serious date. You're limping away from that now, and you're looking over your shoulder, and there's your girlfriend, eating one of your legs like a chicken drumstick. What would you say? I know. You'd say: I find I never think in terms of male spiders or in terms of female spiders. I find I always think in terms of... spiders ””