Addresses Quote by Marshall B. Rosenberg
“When we express our needs indirectly through the use of evaluations, interpretations, and images, others are likely to hear criticism. When people hear anything that sounds like criticism, they tend to invest their energy in self-defense or counterattack. It's important that when we address somebody that we're clear what we want back.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Nonviolent Communication, Marshall B. Rosenberg, 2003
Indirect expressions can be perceived as criticism, prompting defensive reactions; clear, direct requests reduce conflict.
In simple terms: Clear requests avoid defensive responses.
Key Takeaway
Speak directly about needs.
Themes
communication
conflict
empathy
clarity
nonviolence
Mood
empathetic
constructive
calm
Type
practical
educational
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- personal relationships
- customer service
Key Concepts
nonviolent communication
psychology
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What language makes your request feel collaborative?
- How can you ensure your tone remains supportive?
A Different Perspective
Directness may be seen as blunt.
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