Abuse Quote by Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de Sevigne
“We like so much to hear people talk of us and of our motives, that we are charmed even when they abuse us.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Correspondence of the Marquise de Sévigné, 1670s
People enjoy hearing about us and our motives, even when the commentary is harsh, because it satisfies curiosity and ego.
In simple terms: We like hearing about ourselves, even if the talk is negative.
Key Takeaway
Recognize the need for external validation and seek internal confidence.
Themes
ego
curiosity
social perception
Mood
thoughtful
observational
Type
social
psychological
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- online comments
- celebrity gossip
- political discourse
Key Concepts
human nature
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we crave others’ opinions?
- Can you find validation without external chatter?
A Different Perspective
Constant scrutiny can erode self‑worth.
