Back again Quote by Margot Livesey
“In How to Be an American Housewife Margaret Dilloway creates an irresistible heroine. Shoko is stubborn, contrary, proud, a wonderful housewife and full of deeply conflicted feelings. I wanted to shake her, even as I was cheering her on, and this cunningly structured novel allowed me to do both. It also took me on two intricate journeys, from post-war Japan and the shadow of Nagasaki to contemporary California, and from motherhood to daughterhood and back again. A profound and suspenseful debut.”
About This Quote
Source Book: In How to Be an American Housewife by Margaret Dilloway, 2015
A complex heroine navigates cultural displacement, family roles, and personal growth across continents and generations.
In simple terms: A conflicted woman balances tradition and modern life.
Key Takeaway
Embrace change while honoring roots.
Themes
identity
family
culture
growth
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
literary
character‑driven
When to use this quote
- post‑war Japan
- contemporary California
- mother‑daughter relationships
- career decisions
Key Concepts
immigration
generational trauma
self‑discovery
Questions to Reflect On
- How do cultural expectations shape personal identity?
- What sacrifices are necessary for self‑realization?
A Different Perspective
The narrative may romanticize hardship.
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