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“Every act of motherhood contains a dual intent, as the mother holds the child close and prepares it to move way from her, as she supports the child and stands it firmly on its own feet, and as she guards it against danger and sends it out across the yard, down by the stream, and across the…” quote by Margaret Mead
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“Every act of motherhood contains a dual intent, as the mother holds the child close and prepares it to move way from her, as she supports the child and stands it firmly on its own feet, and as she guards it against danger and sends it out across the yard, down by the stream, and across the traffic-crowded highway. Unless a mother can do both - gather her child close and turn her child out toward the world - she will fail in her purpose.”

Margaret Mead

About This Quote

Source Book: Coming of Age in Samoa, Margaret Mead, 1928

Motherhood involves both nurturing and encouraging independence, balancing protection with letting go.

In simple terms: Mothers must both care for and let children go.

Key Takeaway

Balance love with fostering independence.

Themes

parenting growth independence balance protection

Mood

reflective concerned hopeful

Type

advice philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • raising children
  • teaching self‑reliance
  • managing separation anxiety
  • preparing for adulthood

Key Concepts

developmental psychology attachment theory socialization

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you know when to hold on and when to let go?
  • What risks arise from pushing independence too early?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on protection can hinder a child's confidence and autonomy.

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